Based on our research of the Phone Sex market we have produced the following guide to help users get the very best experience.
1. What is Phone Sex? Phone sex is a service in which allows you to call a premium number and have live phone sex with a selection of women.
2. How does it work? To have phone sex simply call the premium rate number, you will need to listen to regulatory (good services will take about 60 seconds). You will then have to make selections via you key pad on the type of girl you wish to speak with. You will then connect live.
3. How much will it cost – You will see the price of phone sex number advertised alongside the numbers. Prices vary per minute. From our research we found that more expensive numbers were not necessarily better. The difference in quality of services is vast, some services are simply run to rip you off by leaving you waiting for ages without connecting you to a live girl. However there are very good reputable companies that will connect you in less than 60 seconds. If you find a good service we suggest you stick with it. We recommend you set a budget per week, based on you disposable income, as it is very easy to over spend.
4. What can I talk about? – Anything you want, that’s why you have called. Why not share you fantasies and tell her exactly what you want. If it’s legal you can talk about it – simple as that. We found that girls like you to tell them what you want as it helps them satisfy you, however they are also happy to lead the conversation if you prefer.
5. I am embarrassed about my fantasy? Don’t be, Phone Sex operators are very open minded – just keep it legal.
6. What if I am shy? – The simple answer is don’t be, the girl will do everything to put you at ease. If she senses you are shy and do not want to talk she will take the lead, you will soon grow in confidence, trust me.
7. Can I eavesdrop on other conversations? Many guys who are to shy to speak live or are unable to talk due to the proximity of others choose to eavesdrop on other conversations. These are normally recorded and many guys find it very erotic to listen in on another caller’s phone sex sessions. Most services also offer recorded stories for customers who just like to listen. You should expect to pay less for recorded services that live services.
8. Is phone sex cheating? – Phone sex is not cheating in a physical sense, however if you are in a relationship you should consider the feelings of you partner before having phone sex.
9. Are girls really at home? – Good quality sex chat services employ 1000’s of women across the UK who earn a percentage of the call cost for providing the service. All good services are monitored by Icstis to ensure the service meets the regulatory requirements.
10. Can I change girls once on a call? Yes, most good phone sex services will allow you to change girls, normally by pressing a set key such as the # button. This allows you to talk to another girl by returning to the main menu avoiding the need redial and expense of listening to regulatory information again.
11. Can I choose the kind of girl I want? Yes, you will normally be given a list of options from the main menu relating to the type of girls available e.g. House Wife’s, Lesbians or University Girls.
12. Can you meet the girls? – No, Phone sex is not an escort service, do not ask!!!
13. Will girls give out their email address or mobile numbers? – No, again do not ask.
14. Do they fake it? Only you can decide that?
15. Will call show on my phone bill? – Yes!!! So be careful, many guys choose to use their private mobile phone to avoid this issue.
16. There is a picture of a girl in the ad, will I speak to her directly? Very rarely, most photos are generic marketing shots rather than pictures of the actual sex chat operators.
17. Do girls enjoy their job? Phone sex offer women a good income and flexible hours working from home. Many girls we spoke to said they speak to some really great guys. As with any job there are positive and negatives.
18. If I find a girl I like, can I call her again? Many services now give individual operators a PIN reference code to allow you to enter when you call again to be re-connecting to the same girl. Some services even tell you if the last girl you spoke to is available when you call back next time, very clever!
19. I like older women, do services offer mature ladies? Yes, many guys share a passion for the more mature ladies and so a high percentage of phone chat operators are over 40 years of age.
20. Can I speak to foreign girls? From our research we found UK services to be the very best value for money. Many of these service have foreign ladies (such as Thai women) living and working in the UK. Be very cautious about using overseas chat services as they are often unregulated and can be an expensive con.
21. Can I see the girls online? You can not view the girls live on normal phone sex services, however new online sex cam websites now offer this service. Search in Google for ‘’sex cam’’ for more information.
22. Do Phone Sex operators offer call backs? There are a number of companies who offer ‘’call back’’ phone sex services in the UK. These normally require upfront payment by credit card via a standard UK land line. This avoids the issue of premium telephone numbers on you bill, but you will be charged a premium for this service and you will have to wait for inbound call. As a result the majority of phone sex is complete via premium rate numbers.
23. Do I have to say goodbye? Some callers have a chat at the end of the call and some like to hang up straight away, it’s your decision.
24. Will my call be recorded? All phones sex calls are recorded in accordance with Icstis regulations. You will sometimes be given the option to allow others to listen in to your call or keep the call private, it’s your decision.
25. Are Phone Sex Services regulated? Yes all phones sex calls in the UK are monitored and recorded to ensure compliance with Icstis regulations. Only use services that are regulated by Icstis (an independent non profit organisation) as it protects you and ensures the age and working conditions of chat girls. For more information on Icstis click the clink.
